Friday, January 14, 2011

The Silence Game

Following up on my post on the Sensorial part of the Montessori curriculum, I wanted to highlight the Silence game.  Yesterday on the way home, Tristan told me to turn off the DVD player and to stop talking so he could listen. We sat in silence for a good while, then he said, "I heard a sound. I think it was that tree falling." 

First of all, the fact that he put his attention to something other than the DVD player is astounding.  Secondly, the fact that he sat in his seat, very still, very quiet and very obviously concentrating on listening was amazing.  I realized what he was doing about half way though the silence. I was baffled at first trying to understand why he would ask me to turn off the DVD- he never asks that! But then as I watched him in the mirror and realized he had his hand to his ear and was looking out the window, I understood he was trying to listen.

I have read about the Silence Game and how silence fits into a Montessori classroom. It is a part of the sensorial curriculum and seems vital to the child's self-awareness.

Here is some history and one way the Silence Game is used (taken from Montessori Teacher Training Blog):

Dr. Montessori created the Silence Game while working with children who were partially deaf. She observed that their hearing improved when they were able to listen carefully for sounds. Standing at the back of the room with the children facing away from her, Dr. Montessori quietly called out the name of each child. When the children heard her call their name, they would quietly walk to where she stood.

The Silence Game takes practice. Young children and those who are not yet normalized have relatively short attention spans and find it ever so difficult to remain still and quiet for more than 20-30 seconds. With practice, attention spans lengthen and children learn to relax, absorb, and appreciate the world around them.

To play the Silence Game, choose a time when your Montessori students are calm. (Right after recess may not be the best time!) Begin by telling the children you are going to play a game. It’s called the Silence Game. They will need to keep their bodies still and quiet, and not talk. Tell them that they will need to listen very carefully for their name to be called. When they hear it, they are to stand up and walk quietly to the person who calls their name. You may want to tell them that it is okay to close their eyes if it helps them listen more attentively. Then, stand behind the class and softly call the children’s names.

As you begin to call their names, you will notice that the children will walk very quietly and purposefully towards you, not wishing to break the silence of their peers. Make sure you call everyone’s name as this encourages everyone to listen. If a child is having difficulty staying quiet, make sure you call the names of a few quiet children first to encourage them to be quiet.

Later, the Montessori teacher can simply whisper the word “Silence” or ring a soft chime or dim the lights. At first, only a few children may be aware, but soon all of the children will be aware of the quiet spreading through the environment and will adjust their movements and voices in order to experience the silence they create.

And once again, I am amazed to see the things I read about coming out of Tristan in real life.  He is using the things he is hearing/seeing while in school outside of class and that is a concrete example that he is picking up and retaining the things he is exposed to in class.

Sensorial

Children ages 3-6 learn through exploration using their senses of sight, sound, smell, taste and touch.  The sensorial curriculum trains and sharpens these senses through isolating one sense enabling the child to better discern similarities and differences. This heightened sensory perception and awareness opens a wider door for learning in all areas of the environment. Language is integrated into all sensorial.

  1. Visual Discrimination
    • Size - matching and grading
    • Color - primary and secondary colors, matching and grading
    • Form - 2 and 3 dimensional shapes
  2. Auditory Discrimination
    • Silence
    • Sound - matching and grading
    • Musical tones - matching and grading
  3. Tactile Activities
    • Surface - rough, smooth
    • Texture - matching
  4. Stereognostic - sense of Movement
  5. Baric - matching and grading weights
  6. Thermic - matching temperatures
  7. Olfactory - matching smells
  8. Gustatory - matching tastes

Thursday, January 13, 2011

More Snow Days

The school was delayed 2 hours today which at first I was a little peeved about. But then I realized both the neighboring counties on either side of us, were out a full day again! My husband and I both stayed homed Monday and Tuesday and then I came to work yesterday and my husband stayed home. Today, my husband went to work and I took Tristan to work with me until 10am and then took him to school for the 10:30am start. 

I will admit he was very good while with me at work except for when we called Gramma and he yelled into the phone "GRAMMA!".  Everyone got a kick out of that.  I am lucky that my boss and the people I work with are pretty easy going about situations where you have to bring your kids with you for a short time because you just have nothing else you can do with them.  I couldn't miss even more work and with the school delayed, we had nowhere to take him. 
 
Tristan played his Mobigo computer games, colored on some paper, typed on my computer and called Gramma and Daddy on the phone. Here is one of his pictures:



He surprised me by writing his name out. I have seen him do it before but never with such clear lettering.   Not sure if he has been practicing writing at school or maybe it isn't odd that he can write his name at this age? I didn't really expect letters until he was kindergarten age or so!  But I am proud of him for writing his name, such as it is with a backwards R and not exactly straight!

I am being exposed to all new challenges as Tristan gets older. Things I never thought about before. What do I do when schools are out? How do I keep him occupied and busy while I am trying to work from home? How much tv is too much tv on days like this? Is it ok to let him eat M&M's for breakfast when he won't eat anything else?! 


Someday maybe I will become the all knowing, all prepared, and all organized mother I wish I could be, however, someday may not come until my 3 year old is 30! I will keep striving towards that goal and hope that I reach it sometimes if not all the time!


Here's wishing for sunny warm days!







Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Snow Days





We have been snowed in since Sunday here in Charlotte. Tristan just told me that he misses school and wishes he could go back. The school (rightly so) is closed again tomorrow - so 3 days in a row plus the weekend and we are going on 5 days of trying to keep the 3 year old busy.  Needless to say, the boredom and the 3 year old are winning! But it has been super nice to be at home with him and not be on a "hurry up and get there" schedule.  

The school sent out an email to let us know that school was closed again tomorrow and they let us know that private schools in North Carolina are not required to make up any lost days due to inclement weather. And that the instructional days are longer than those in public schools so for elementary students, that comes to the equivalent of over 7 extra days.

I did not realize the instructional day was longer at the school.  I can't find much about the length of the instructional day at Montessori schools but for US students in public schools, it appears that the average instructional day is 6.5 hours long so I assume a Montessori school must be a half hour longer approximately? 

So while the other kids are in school Martin Luther King Day and probably some of Spring Break, Tristan will be at home. If you think about it, it is only me who gets the bad end of that deal!  When I am off work and he would be making up days at school, I don't get a free day off and if I have to work, I have to find someone to stay with Tristan! Oh well - overall I am glad that they don't have to make up the days- I am sure the kids are all mad and resentful when they are making days up on Spring Break or Saturdays (!). At least that's how I felt when I had to make up days!

I personally cannot wait for winter to be over! I am not meant for cold weather and really see no reason for it to get below about 50 degrees!

Hope you are enjoying the snow though and let me know what you have done to stave off the boredom?!